Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years now. I'm a full-time employee at the same company where she works at. We met through work a few years ago and everything has been near perfect since then. A few months ago we made the decision to move in together because her lease was running up, and so was mine. So we decided instead of trying to find places for ourselves that we would just move in together. Fast forward and it has been about a month and a half after we moved in and things have changed. Before we moved in together she would come to my place and I would go to her place all the time, we spent a lot of time together. Sex life was great, we went out to do things all the time. She appreciated the little things (random hugs, kisses, notes left behind of refrigerator etc.) Ever since we moved out however those aspects have changed, now that we are together all the time the sex has drastically decreased, and when I asked her about it she said she doesn't know why she doesn't feel the need for it as much as she used to. She used to be so affectionate towards me also, now it's rare for her to grab my hand, or kiss me. Anytime I hint to her that I want to have sex she gets annoyed and blows me off, however whenever she wants it then it's supposed to be okay. I saw her phone the other day and she had been looking up some info on being "asexual". This was the day after the night where I confronted her about it and asked her what was going on. I love my girlfriend to pieces, I just don't know what else to say, I don't want to be too pushy on the subject. So I just want to know what you guys think? I mean we did just move in together literally a month ago, is this normal? Am I over reacting?
TL;DR: My girlfriend and I recently moved in together, everything that we did before moving in has decreased since we moved in together.
Submitted April 05, 2016 at 06:42AM by Makingmyway93 http://ift.tt/1RAXoEs relationships
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