Some background, my gf and I visited this town which is about 10 hours from home because one of my old close friends lives here. I haven't spoken to him in years but he seemed the same and like we were friends. My gf and I had been trying to move somewhere and now we were finally able too and my friend (bob) needed a new place that wasn't an absolute dump in the ghetto and room mates. So he said we should get a place with him. My gf and I from our hometown found a place here and I leant him $700 as well as paid my share of down payment. Before we moved in I asked him and said "if I move here you want to actually hang out, and be friends right? You don't just need someone to live with do you?" He said of course why would I think any different. Well once we moved in he began to act a lot different. I'm just going to make some bullet points of things.
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I've leant him close to a grand for various things including the times he didn't have money for rent or bills, he has not kept track of what he owes me what so ever and never makes a mention of paying me back. Been 4 months and he still owes me $123.
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he never asks me when bills are due and when I ask him for money he never knows how much he owes me. Somehow making sure each and every bill is paid and on time is me and my gfs sole responsibility. I've had to take and pay the rent every single month.
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he has a dog and we also have animals. None of ours have fleas and my dog has a beautiful healthy coat because we take care of our animals. We moved in and he invited his no offense but homeless friend over with his dog. A few days later there was fleas all over the house and my dog is allergic to fleas. I didn't blame him I just said these fleas suck and he told me I need to take care of them. I said why is it my responsibility? And he tried to blame me yet later when drunk he mentioned he's not sure if its time for his dogs flea pill or not. I ended up spending $200 on flea stuff for the animals and house. I gave him a free topical one to use for his dog and he just said "oh" and never used it. Had to take my dog to vet spend another $200 because she got an infection from flea allergies. He didn't ask once if I needed monetary help or ask if my dogs OK. He acted dismissive and like he didn't care.
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the refrigerator has been at 55 degrees for months when I told him the food in it stinks (it makes the living room smell like a dumpster) he tells me the fridge is and food are fine. He smells nothing and tells me I'm paranoid yet he agrees if it doesn't function and serve its purpose it should be fixed sense we pay for it. I've had to deal with calling the landlord each time and being here all day each time to let them in. Meanwhile he just acts annoyed and calls me paranoid. The fridge is still broken.
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I have seen him give the animals water only one single time. I and my gf have filled their bowl watched him knock it over 5 minutes later and leave it there spilled and empty.
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the living room has my TV in it, my record player, my ps4, my speakers, my amp, my microwave, and all of the dishes, cookware and utinsels are all mine and my gfs. He owns one cup and a coffee maker I don't use. And the couches he got off the side of the road basically right outside our house. Along with his bed lol. He has left both sinks full of dirty dishes for over a week and I have no clean utensils to use. I have also bought trash bags the entire time for the kitchen. Along with dish sponges etc. He bought one light bulb that lasted a week.
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he invites his friends that I don't know and have never met to come stay the night on out couch all the time. The guy who is here right now has been sleeping on our couch for a around 2 weeks now. He is very rarely here but still. He doesn't introduce us to anyone he brings over, he basically leaves them in the living room and hides in his room most the time.
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i told him I don't know that we are comfortable with having random ppl we don't know having a key and access to our house and that I would like a heads up before someone comes to stay. He got mad and immediately told me if he can't have friends come over he will move out and told me that I'm strange and paranoid and no one else is like that. He got mad that I don't "trust" his judgment of ppl. Which to me sounds like manipulative bullshit.
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he leaves his dog here at the house with us for days at a time. We have a small apartment with no back or front yard.
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we've never been to Mardi gras. Apparently it lasts for 2 weeks and there are lots of things like parads to go to that you have to know locals to find out about. All during Mardi gras he ignored us and didn't tell us about or invite us to anything. He called me during one of the biggest parades that someone told me about that we wanted to go to so he could ask me to let his dog out and feed it. If i had known when or where it was we could have at least gone on our own. Never mentioned anything about the parade.
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I was going to drive to our hometown on Xmas and let him go with us but a few days before it was time to leave my car broke. I told him 2 days ahead of time we need a ride to go get my car from the shop and see what was wrong with it. Well when the day came he disappeared and when I mentioned that I had to spend 50$ on taxis he blew up and started yelling. Telling me it's not his fault we don't know anyone with a car and he has to go eat that we could just walk 2 miles in the rain (it turned out to be 10 miles not 2) and that its not his problem. When I told him I had to spend $600 on car and now can't go he just got mad at me and mad he couldn't go.
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the electric, and internet bill are still due but I haven't paid it cus he hasn't mentioned it or asked me about it and I'm tired of having to every month. He basically hasnt spoken to us in two weeks. He already basically acted like my gf doesn't exist.
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he constantly complains about "pc faggots".
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have to listen to him and his gf or random girls having ridiculously loud and fake sounding sex at all hours of the day and night.
Submitted February 12, 2016 at 02:25AM by Deerburn http://ift.tt/23ZMBZC badroommates
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