Long story short, I have a roommate who is an absolute slob--she lets food mold in our refrigerator to the point where we had BLACK MOLD growing inside the drawers, we had to throw out the rice cooker entirely because she left rice to sit in it until it became a LIQUID with green and black mold on top, cleans her cat's litterbox once every two months, etc. I had to toss over 50lbs of food out in the trash because of the black mold issue within our kitchen, including at least $100 of my own groceries. She also has a tendency to claim that she has disorders and diseases out of the blue without any sort of diagnosis or proof to back up her claims--for a while she's been touting around saying that she has Disassociative Identity Disorder and can't clean up after herself because she "forgets," but as of two days ago she's been running around saying that she suddenly has sensory hearing loss and is now HOH. She happened to leave her medical papers out for her "doctor's visit," and it outright says that all they did was put a light in her ears--she hasn't even had a hearing test, but she's telling everyone that she is slowly but surely going deaf.
The other night, she and I got into a disagreement about the genre of a song and she stormed out of the apartment, telling every one of our mutual friends that she was afraid that I was unsafe, abusive and that she was afraid that I would physically harm her. I have literally never even implied that I would ever hurt her or anyone else in my life. I have had four successful roommate situations in the past, while I am only her second roommate situation--in her last roommate situation, her old roommates posted pictures of my current roommate's molding, rotting dishes and food on their social media profiles while my roommate claimed that they were physically abusing her and harming her.
I have been talking with the school counselor and the housing advisor and am working actively on finding a new place to live, but until that comes, what would be the best way of dealing with her? Right now I'm on 100% no contact of any kind, but as you can imagine it's massively uncomfortable, and I have to listen to her slamming things down, sigh passive aggressively, etc. Any general advice would be appreciated!
Submitted September 08, 2015 at 01:50PM by bootscootz http://ift.tt/1M7E54d raisedbynarcissists
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