Been NC for three weeks as of today. First I got a string of "It's Mother's Day, please forgive me" emails (literally the same phrase repeated hundreds of times), then this. I think it's wonderful because it perfectly sums up all the delusions in one.
For some context, I have a lot of food allergies. Before going NC and switching to living at university full time, I depended on my nmom for food, and (as I was a very infantilized child) she never explicitly taught me about nutrition or cooking.
Also, I'm a transgender male. Parents don't approve.
[name I no longer use], please read this very carefully, darling:
what are you cooking and eating every day?
what are the nutrients in the food you are eating every day?
are you eating food that is nutritionally well balanced?
do you even know what it means to cook and eat nutritionally well balanced food every day, every meal?
do you even have the time to cook food that is nutritionally well balanced?
are you eating enough food every day and on time?
at the most, you can keep your food in refrigerator for 2 days. After that, please do not eat that food, throw it out and cook fresh new food.
your grocery bill is around $100.00 per week. How are you buying proper food every week? By now, all your cash money that was in your pocket must have run out. Where are you getting the money to buy food? Please do not take any money from any one at [university]. Daddy and I have money for you.
why are you handling things in this horrible a manner? It is very bad for you to not eat properly every day. Whoever gave you this advice is very seriously wrong. It is going to destroy the entire body and mind very slowly and dangerously. [University dean] has told us that she knew ahead if time about this plan of breaking off all relations with Bianca's parents. Why did [university dean] approve this? Why she did not stop her [university] psychologists and also you from making you do this? Why no one at [university] advised you to be a mature and responsible adult and deal with your problems in a positive and constructive way instead of beeaking off with your parents at your expense?
if breaking off all relations with your parents and not even having proper nutritionally well balanced meals every day, is part of your therapy or even the coming out process, it is a very dangerous part that you are being put through, and you must stop it right away.
-?Only you can stop it, [name I no longer use], only you can stop this right away as every one at [university] is blaming you for everything by saying that you are 19 year old adult and every thing is your own decision, they have nothing to do with it. So I am begging you, please stop this right away, before something bad happens to you. You are very malnourished now and you will not be able to think safely while malnourished. Please find the strength within you and be strong and take food from me so you can eat it right away. You don't have to take [university] psychologists permission. Don't tell them anything, please, protect yourself and eat properly.
- you must stop this coming out process right now. You must stop this last step if conversion therapy to lgbtq right away. I have talked to the head of national lgbtq association and lgbtq lawyers and they have told me to tell you that this is not an approved process, it is not approved by American medical or psychological association as it has not been studied in depth for its physical and psychological consequences on people, young adults, or any age people. They want you to stop it right away, because it is probably something that psychologists at [university] or other individuals or groups have made it up themselves or they are copying it from someone else or somewhere else like another university doing something like this. It is very bad for you. It can make young adults very confused and insane. It can make people die. Please stop this right away, only you can stop it, be strong and stop it. You do not have to tell any one at [university] anything, just quietly start eating your normal food and come home. No one has to know, so please stop reporting us, i live you more than anything and so does daddy. Please read all this very carefully, you are very strong and smart, so calm down and get out of this fast. If you say that is it, I tried it your way [university] psychologists, and I will not continue with it, they will not be able to stop you, so please listen and save yourself, run away fast. Please be strong be string and be alert. I do hope you read this very slowly and carefully and do not tell anyone about it.
I love you always and forever, unconditionally,
Mumma
Submitted May 09, 2016 at 06:48AM by eapostthrowaway http://ift.tt/1ZuZkQ5 raisedbynarcissists
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