He is being so awful to everyone but me. I will go by how he is to each person
He lies to people. We had a family reunion recently but my mom, father sister an i were at a wedding so we wernt able to attend. At the reunion he was saying lies about us. He said our mom wont let him use the refrigerator even though all the food he buys out is in there. He says we dont buy food or share with him and his family though we always offer! Then there is rent. He pays a very low rent to our parents because he can't get a house and went bankrupt so he and his family are staying with us. Instead of paying is rent he spends his money on vacations spends about 80 a day on meals outside and designer clothes for 2 of his children (but not the other 2. He is like a dead beat dad with them). He treats my mom like shit. He always speaks down to her and streses her out and she is old she cant handle all that! and because he is her son she deals with it. He treats both of my older sisters like crap. So much so that the eldest didn't even want to come over to help my mother after her surgery because he yelled at her and was literally following her around like a foot away and she felt very unsafe. He makes my other sister cry. She is very sensitive and nice yet he verbally attacks her when no one is around. One time he was being rude to her so she just decided to close the door, but her forced it open and she had to run to my room. Then the next day he always acts like he didnt nearly assult his sister. He expects us to do everything for him and his wife (who is great, but has issues) but will do nothing for us. He doesnt mess with me because he knows not to. he just picks on ones he sees as weaker because his wife in a way verbally abuses him because she was abused and he takes thing out on everyone else. He wouldnt treat a grown man like dirt because they would crush him, he wont do crap to me because of my personality. I dont know what to do. I am typing this on my phone by the way, so sorry for the run on sentences and such. With questions i can elaborate more. Because i really dont like seeing my family afraid of their sibling and if he is rude to my mother eventually i think i will lose control and hurt him badly.
Tl;dr: my bothers is behaving like a man child.
Submitted July 24, 2016 at 01:56AM by ihateokraandpunch http://ift.tt/2a17Vbv relationships
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