Thursday, October 9, 2014

I am in dire straits Assistance


I do have another account on Reddit and will provide it in a pm, mainly I don't feel comfortable if some people find out I'm posting this here.


My troubles began really about 6 years ago when I decided to let my friend of many years move in with me because she was evicted. I charged her very cheap rent, as I was buying the house through land contract so my payment was low anyway. About 6 months ago, I lost the house. She went months without paying any rent and I had changed jobs and couldn't cover the entire payments anymore. I tried working with the lender but every time I came up with an amount, they'd change their mind and demand more. Eventually, I just gave up.


Me and my daughter went to go live with my mom, her boyfriend and his daughter. His daughter didn't like me from the beginning but I paid rent to her since the house was in her name. Her kids started stealing my food from the refrigerator, being mean to my daughter, etc. and liked to make stuff up as kids do. One day, I came home after a long shift at work and went straight to my room as I always did to just keep to myself and she came in yelling at me to get out. I was worried it would turn into her physically fighting with me so I ended up moving again.


We're staying with other family members now in a different city. Except it's not a city, it's the middle of nowhere. I lived in a city all my life, I'm used to walking or riding a bus to get to work, those options aren't here. The closest carryout is an hour walk away. I ended up getting a job but it's the next big city over and it's 45 minutes by car. I don't have a car.


I realize this is all one big story leading up to asking for a car. There are also some details I left out that I don't even feel comfortable saying on a throwaway account, if you're interested in hearing them, I can answer through a PM.


I can say that people are tired of giving me rides, to the point where I've already gotten written up for calling off a few times because I couldn't get to work. A car would provide me a way to get a second job because I need to get my own place very soon. To throw salt on my open wounds, my job has cut my hours so saving up has pretty much been thrown out the window as well.


Thanks for reading, I hope I can find some help somewhere. I honestly know that having transportation will finally get things to where I can improve my situation. I can give my location in a PM. Thanks!







Submitted October 10, 2014 at 09:22AM by throwithelpaway http://ift.tt/1vQjdmX Assistance

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