It seems like all the women in my life are mad at me. I broke up with my gf of 1.5 years, and she’s coping by being mad at me for it. Some angry text and some social media passive aggressive comments. I don’t really blame her honestly, it’s just a weird feeling to be the asshole ex bf.
Then I got into a fight with my ex-wife (baby momma) over my daughters feeding habits. For the past month and a half her refrigerator has been broken and she’s been taking her out for fast food nearly every day. I brought it up to her several times that it was concerning me, especially considering we were both overweight and diabetic. This finally peeked last week when I told her I’ve been keeping a list of what my daughter tells me she’s been eating when she’s with her which includes a lot Mcd’s, pizza, taco bell, etc. She took that as a threat and made a big scene when I went to pick up my daughter (at McDonalds -_-). I guess we’re not on speaking terms since she ignores my text now which are all concerning my daughter.
And finally, I guess the big one. My sisters and my mom. I moved back in with parents a little over a year ago to help out my sick mom. I basically sleep on the couch and don’t really have a room but pay rent and help around the house. I have a brother, who was very physically abusive to me when we were kids but when I hit puberty the abuse stopped. His kids live with us (boy 13 and girl 11) but he moved in with his gf and never really comes home. When he picks up the kids to take them out on the weekends he just pulls into the driveway and calls them to come out. He doesn’t want to confront my mom or dad. My parents went out on vacation for two weeks and when he found he started coming home and making himself comfortable. Bringing in his gf, using the washer and dryer and cooking and then leaving the mess in the house. I confronted him, told him he can’t just come home because my parents are gone and he especially can’t come and just leave his mess and I called him a coward for not coming when my parents are home especially knowing my mom is sick. This angered him and he took a swing at me and almost immediately my younger brother ran and put him in a choke hold to stop him from getting violent. All that commotion got the attention of my sister who assumed we were all just fighting like animals even though I never threw a single punch. Since I’m usually known as the “smart responsible” brother it seemed like the blame was put solely on me. When my mom returned from her trip she told me how much of a fuck-up I am and that she can’t believe I would be fighting with family even though I explained to her that I never hit anyone and that all I did was tell him the truth, I still stand by my words I have no regrets in what I told him. But she’s been back for a week now and she’s still not talking to me. My other sister that doesn’t live with us even called me to tell me that she is so disappointed with me and would have never expected me to start a fight with my own family. My dad asked me what happened between me and my brother and he told me I did good, and he was ok with what I told him and believed me when I told him I never hit him even after he took the first swing at me, so I guess I have one person’s support.
I guess all of this is just stressful, my mind is everywhere and I just needed to vent.
Submitted November 08, 2017 at 01:23AM by Abyssx3 http://ift.tt/2hl5c4r CasualConversation
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