Does the N in your life have extreme disregard for possessions-- even valuable ones-- and objects in general?
Cleaning out Nparent's house and it is beyond devastating
Yes, hoarding and negligence. I can't even talk about the condition of the house and the wasted investment and the loss of inheritance. I jsut want to focus on the small stuff.
Everything-- EVERYTHING IS BROKEN. Handle off the refrigerator door. Why? Those things do not easily break. It is not an old unit. Have you ever had a fridge handle just come off? CD player with the lid covering the CD totally missing. Literal doors to bedrooms missing, taken or fallen off their hinges, where are these doors, no one knows, they're not in the doorframes though. The damage to the house and to countless possessions large and small is endless. Things that should have been kept were thrown away, probably because it offered him a small sense of delusional empowerment to be "decluttering"-- but actually he was giving away or discarding things that his children wanted passed on to us someday. Meanwhile, piles and piles of incomprehensible junk built up over the years.
I had to edit this because I was worried it would be too upsetting for others to read. Anyway let me know if anyone else has an Nparent with this tendency please.
Submitted June 13, 2017 at 01:33AM by clutch_purse http://ift.tt/2tep3SY LifeAfterNarcissism
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