So every night I've been bringing the girls into my younger daughters room with snacks and the laptop to watch movies. They peacefully play together and enjoy not being shushed or forced to watch adult shows while their grandfather yells; I get to avoid my in-laws.
My husband is off of work Monday's and Tuesday's so he was home last night (he of course came into the room with us; he doesn't want my girls or myself around his father either). Were walking into the kitchen for dinner when I hear his dad starting in on my oldest, I'm already done. I'm too pregnant, I'm over his shit, I'm not letting this slide. What's he on her for? Onions. Fucking onions. Every god damn meal we have with onions he forces her to eat them. My husband hates onions and I have some weird aversion to them which causes my throat to nearly close as I gag (happens pregnant or not) so it's not like she's ever eaten them with us or will ever have to. Every time he asks if she wants some, she says she doesn't like them, he tells her she doesn't know that she's never had them (yes she has asshole you've done this before and I didn't have it in me to speak up), she tells him yes she has and doesn't like them, he'll put them on her plate until she tries it, she'll eat it and still say she doesn't like it and yet he'll add more telling her to just eat them. Not tonight dickhead. The second I heard him start I told him that was enough. Said that he does this every single time there's onions in a meal and though she tells him she doesn't like them he proceeds to force them on her which is not necessary since she's eating the food she does have just fine so he needs to leave her alone. Everyone froze and he just started at me.
He didn't speak all dinner. It was glorious. My husband and I were smirking here and there at each other. Last night my MIL told my husband that FIL didn't appreciate my tone. My tone? Really asshole? You yelled in my face and shook the chair I was sitting in. You hit my daughter while she begged you to stop yet you just laughed and continued to do it. You have the nerve to say you don't appreciate my tone? Fuck yourself. I guess my husband told his mother that he doesn't appreciate his father making me cry and have a panic attack and hurting and scaring my daughter, of courses she had nothing to say.
This morning my husband was expecting his mother to start in on him, its usually when she attacks my character (I'm lazy, I let make do everything so I can sleep in. . .I'm twenty three weeks pregnant on muscles relaxers for spasms in my cervix due to a large cyst that also has me on partial bed rest; yeah cuz I'm totally enjoying this), but today she simply asked when we we're thinking of moving. Now this may sound like she's kicking us out but it's not we've been looking for houses even as of yesterday so she really was just wondering if were found one. He told her by Feb first but were still looking because none if the houses have refrigerators and between rent and a deposit we can't find a fridge even on craigslist for under $400 which we can't afford. She told us not to worry about that shed get us one. Today were going to turn in our paperwork for food stamps and to look at a few other houses so wish us luck!
Submitted January 13, 2015 at 08:56PM by NotACatfish http://ift.tt/1suw8gv breakingmom
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