I've been with my husband a total o 8 years and married for 4, of course I saw red flags before taking the plunge but I considered him my best friend. First thing I discovered prior to getting married, through emails as he had left his account open, is that he is into BDSM. I am not. I confronted him and of course never received a satisfying answer as to how deep he's in. The emails between the dominatrix's requested things that shocked me and made my blood run cold. It was also the beginning of the end of our sex life. Next issue I ignored, I think I've been lying to myself that he's an alcoholic. Recently, I came home to him passed out on the floor with the refrigerator door wide open. He's very social and wants everyone to have a good time but when he's out, he drinks until he's extremely drunk. This past weekend I was out of town for a girl's weekend and he spent almost $1,000 going out drinking. I'm done with it. I should have paid attention when he told me his family tried an intervention on him before we met. He's a "white lair" and has misled me and let me down so many times. I think I'm crazy.... don't know where to turn anymore. I want to have time apart from him and find myself again and feel happy...be with my friends....travel. Just get myself back again. he's a successful 46 yr old with a great career ahead of him but I'm not going to take care of anyone anymore.
Submitted January 17, 2015 at 04:02AM by tundraprincess http://ift.tt/1Gb123F relationship_advice
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