Moving In 6 Days, Family Doesn't Know :D raisedbynarcissists

Everything is ready, I'm signing the lease and getting the keys on monday, and moving on Saturday. Thursday and Friday are a 2 day holiday in my country, which will give me ample time to freak out ahem, prepare for the move. And although the moving company is going to do everything (I don't have to pack a single box), I'll still have friends accompany me throughout the day, both for emotional support and because I'm worried my mom (who lives nearby and often goes by my house on her way to other stuff, not for stalking reasons but simply because it's part of her path) will see the moving truck and start shit, so I want to have safety in numbers, and I also want witnesses. I'm so proud and happy to have so many amazing friends who are supportive and who I know that, no matter what happens, are going to help this day have happy memories in it.

As for practical stuff, I need to get some things set up in my new apartment (including calling the electricity company to tell them to bill me, calling my health insurance to inform them of the change of address, setting up protection nets on the windows for my cats) and also prepare some stuff for the move (pack a bag to live off of in the first couple days, drop my refrigerator stuff off at a friend's who's gonna keep it for me, throw out some stuff that's not gonna go on the trip).

And then I gotta write, and drop off, The Letter to my mother telling her never to contact me again, which I'm honestly excited to do! I don't want to say too much in it, I'm not hoping for a final confrontation in which I tell her everything she's done to me, but just saying "As of this time, I've vacated the apartment, in lieu of a fine I've left behind 2 air-conditioning units, all the bathroom and kitchen furniture, the heater and 2 showerheads, as well as some wall shelving you installed for me, I'm in a safe but undisclosed location, here's the last rent you're getting from me, never contact me again, and also just in case there's any doubt I'm not going on a trip to New York with you next year, so I hope those plane tickets are refundable" is gonna feel liberating.

Submitted October 08, 2017 at 07:23PM by wixbloom http://ift.tt/2xqFdPD raisedbynarcissists