My controlling mother and my beta father. TheRedPill

Hi,

It's been a month since I've swallowed the pill and life has been on the upswing since then. I've stared to lift, go out more often etc. However, once you've really swallowed the pill you can see the behaviors of everyone else in their true form and this has shown me the underlying nature of my mother.

My mother was always the matriarch of the family (we're four people). She chose what I ate, what I wore, whom I meet and other such aspects.Since my teens I've resented her controlling behavior but she's prone to fits of violent rages and frequently goes about breaking things. My father has adopted the strategy of "Mom is always right" and this has been detrimental in the way I grew up.

Since I've swallowed the TRP,I've begun to see her fits of rages as a means of getting attention from others. I've begun to hold frame and she finds it irksome that she is rarely able to shake it and thus has begun passive-aggressive approach by not talking to me, getting others to ignore me etc. Yesterday was once again her rage day and I held frame,when she realized that she couldn't change it she begun to act as if she was having a stroke(she wasn't I checked) and my father rushed to help her. I couldn't help but visualize her inner hamster smiling in contentment.

The trouble is that my father has no or very little control over the house. He can't scold us(me and my sis), he can't give advice and he cannot take control because every time my mother creates a huge scene out of nothing. (e.g: you didn't keep the milk in the refrigerator) and yet my father is expected to send his official car for taking mother around for shopping.

Many times I've tried talking to my father but to him there's no one better than mother. My objections become a personal attack and her objections become my fault.

My dear brothers who are still swallowing the pill read this example and judge for yourself on the dangers of oneitis. Also any advice on dealing with her from you would be appreciated.

Submitted February 13, 2015 at 01:32PM by ankit0912 http://ift.tt/1B5ecfQ TheRedPill