So I know I'm the only one that can decide what happens so here goes.
I was seeing this girl and things were getting pretty serious. She was doing the single parent thing. One day she asked me if I wanted to step up and do like the dad role. So I thought sure.
So here's where things go sideways. My best friend of 10 years was seeing her behind my back and lying about it. He was living with me at the time. He started coming home at later times or not at all. When he came home he smelled like her house.
So I got suspicious. He had recently gotten a new phone and left the old one laying out still signed into his accounts.(insert how I'm a fucker for snooping) so I confronted her about it and she immediately ran to him and I was on what I was watching the conversation in real-time.
Then he didn't come home for a few days. Or when he did come home he would do so while I was at work. The one day he did come home while I was home and I asked him about it I didn't get mad I didn't yell I simply asked him to pick between me and her and I told him I didn't want an answer right now. So I gave him a few days.
I left for work one day and left a note on the refrigerator asking for his answer and he chose her and said he'd be out by the end of the week. This happened back in March of this year and I haven't talked to him since I ran into her at a grocery store a month or so after it happened found out he cheated on her like a month later and they broke up.
So she apologized. Then this morning I woke up from a text message from him. Here is the message.
Hey, I know I know what nerve of this guy. But before you think that I'm hoping you'll hear me out. I know it 4:53 in the morning and your probably thinking I'm drunk off my ass. But I'm not. I'm sober as a preacher. I feel like I never really got to apologize and explain myself to you. So here it goes, what happened between you and I was not something I wanted honestly like I said before in the past and all of my rants that you never listen to, you were the glue they kept the crew together and always have been you always will God I'm hoping you know that now. At the time looking back at it now I should have sat down and told you and I didn't and that was a mistake on my part because at the time I thought the best decision was to not tell you and that was the wrong decision to make...I was wrong. In that decision I lost a best friend a friend that wasn't only a friend but was a friend for all of us (group) all of us like I said the glue, glue that kept us together. Man I'm sorry for the decisions that I made for not thinking it through for not telling you I was irresponsible and it was disrespectful on my part. I'm not asking for forgiveness because I know you can hold a grudge I'm just hoping you can understand and respect the fact that I know I made a mistake and I'm hoping that you know that I'm man enough to admit that I made that mistake to you. I'm sorry for it all, you don't have to respond to this text message I just want you to understand that deep down inside my heart and soul I'm fucking sorry.
So our group of friends have kind of drifted apart since our split up. I kind of want to forgive him but then again I kind of don't want to because I'm afraid that this may happen again. I'm just looking for some guidance. Thanks.
Tl;dr my friend of 10 years was fucking my girlfriend then lied to me for months about it then apologized this morning finally.
Submitted December 20, 2017 at 01:59AM by videowhiz93 http://ift.tt/2km8ouG relationships
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